In other words, “A Beginner’s Guide to Not Being an Ita.”
I think the first thing to answer here though is a question I get a lot which is “What is an ita?” Well, an ita is basically a really, really bad Lolita. The term comes from the Japanese word “itai” meaning “ouch.” Literally, an ita is a Lolita who “looks so bad it’s painful to look at.” Ita has become a pretty popular insult among the Lolita community and it’s really something you’ll want to avoid being called. So, how can you avoid being called an ita? Well my friend, read on and you shall learn! (It’s a long article so I’m putting it under a break but if you’re really serious about starting Lolita there is a lot of stuff in here that you should know!)
liking someone who is already in a relationship
Liking someone who likes you back, but they’re already in a relationship
Liking someone who doesn’t like you back
Liking someone who doesn’t exist.
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